Tops V bottoms

This was a very thought-provoking and insightful post, that truly did not receive as much attention that I feel it deserved. Hence, the reblog.

The Gay Dilettante

For what seems like forever now, there has been only two types of gay men; tops or bottoms.. That is until the new generation of gay men, some of whom refuse to have anal sex and prefer other methods of getting off with their partner invented sides, which plainly and simply put are gay men who do not engage in anal.

It never amazes me how one group of men, united by their love of other men can be so fractious… Maybe it’s an inter-generational thing, but there’s been a fair bit said about gay men trying to fit in by being heteronormative and now by decrying anal. And the sides accusing the others of throwing shade at them for their sexual choices.. Not that I want to get into an argument about semantics. But it would seem to me that if you happen to like men and you happen…

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