Month: May 2015

Adam and Steve…

I have been hearing homophobes say,”It’s Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve” for more than two decades now.

I can honestly say, the homophobes need new material.

That line is tired, old, lame, and busted.  In addition, it is every other synonym for tired, old, lame, and busted, too.

Before I close, I wish to acknowledge my newest blog followers.

Yes, Lesbians, my fellow Gay Men, Transgendered folks, Bisexuals, and our straight allies: this is going to be a short and sweet one today.

As to my new blog followers, they are: “Man of many thoughts,” and “agronsh.”  Thank you, both, very much for honoring who you are and what you do.  May you experience greater insights, and greater PRIDE from following “This Gay Man’s Life…”

And to those of you already following or reading my blog, thank you for all you do for so many, and for honoring who I AM and what I do, too.

Well, given that this motion picture was released in August, 2005, perhaps it is "Adam & Steve," after all!
Well, given that this motion picture was released in August, 2005, perhaps it is “Adam & Steve,” after all!

Three Hispanic Witches Driving to New Hope, PA, Part III…

I almost forgot to reblog this on my other WordPress Blog.

Here you go, and enjoy the rest of the ride!

This Is Who I AM

The Divine Driver, our fellow friend, and I continued to drink in the Magickal Energy of New Hope, Pennsylvania, and we took a short break from going in to stores, and either browsing, buying or both, and took a look at the ducks and geese that were swimming and eating the bird feed that was left over from others feeding them.

We then went to a place that I have always wanted to go into, but never did before: Celt-Iberia Traders, featuring “The Art and Craft of Ireland and Spain.”

I have always been intrigued by this store, and always wanted to go in there, and now, not only did my two fellow Hispanic Witches and I do so, but I even purchased two items (gifts for another, by the way).

It was lovely browsing at the different items.  I must admit, being the Winter Baby that I AM, I…

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Three Hispanic Witches Driving to New Hope, PA, Part II…

And here is Part II now, and Part III, which shall conclude this series of blog posts, shall be written and published tomorrow, Monday, May 25, 2015.

This Is Who I AM

As I wrote yesterday, after we began walking from The Raven New Hope (and passing by without stopping at the New Hope Public Library’s book sale, le sigh), we went to the main part of New Hope and deferred to one of my fellow Hispanic Witches on wanting to go shopping, ASAP.

We first walked into Savioni, which was great for all of us to expand our Prosperity Consciousness.  This is truly, one of New Hope’s high-end stores.  I saw shirts that were priced from $58 to $175, and shoes and boots that were priced at $850 and up.

It proved a bit overwhelming for one of my fellow Hispanic Witches, who has recently forgotten his need/desire to ongoingly expand his Prosperity Consciousness.  Of course, I, as “Mr. Prosperity” have been Re-Minding him to ongoingly use the Sacred Tools and Metaphysical Methods that bring him ever-increasing Financial Supply, but I…

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Another reblog…

Many of us love writing, live for writing, and know that, at least in our heart of Hearts, we are writers.

And some of us love collecting and writing in notebooks, journals and blank books, as well as writing in them.

For all of us, this is for us:


I invite you to enjoy this blog post, because I certainly did.

Before I close, I wish to acknowledge my newest blog followers.  They are: “drcbcn08009” and “agayperspective.”  Thank you, both, for honoring who you are and what you do.  May you receive many insights and much PRIDE from following “This Gay Man’s Life…”

For those of you already following or reading “This Gay Man’s Life…” thank you for honoring who you are and what you do, and for the contributions you already make in the world.spiraljournalnotebooks

Three Hispanic Witches Driving to New Hope, PA, Part I…

Given that there are some LGBT elements to this post (and because one of the other Hispanic Witches, is, like me, a Gay Man, I felt it would be appropriate to reblog this here.

Enjoy, and have a great night.

This Is Who I AM

Since I began leading my very second, as opposed to my very first Goddess Course, “Goddess to the Next Level…” which began on Monday, March 23, 2015, I have been generally happier.

And I was especially happy that two of the participants of this Goddess Course, and I went to one of my all-time favorite places in Pennsylvania, New Hope, yesterday, Friday, May 22, 2015.

The Divine Driver, who also participated in my very first Goddess Course, “Goddess-Graced Guidance” picked up one of the other participants, and me at 10AM, and from there, we made sure we had everything we needed for the day, took time to go to the bathroom, just in case, then off we went to the gas station so the Divine Driver would have more than enough gasoline in her car for the Divine Day Trip.

The Divine Driver was happy to be Re-Minded how much…

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Dear heart,

And once again, I AM a reblogging fool!

Another great post that absolutely deserves to be reblogged, and for those of you struggling romantically, sexually, or with life, in general, may it bring you comfort, guidance, peace and healing.

The Gay Dilettante

My dearest heart,We’ve been through so much together, you and me both-the things we’ve seen, the things we’ve had to overcome, the things we lost… All of the men we could not keep yet can never forget..
Once upon a time, there used to be some modicum of humour.. Oh, another lost man? How funny. That thing you made me do, heart, the thing that ultimately doomed whatever budding romance there might have been? Ha ha, so funny the way that man high tailed it out of our lives. There was humour behind the despair because without that humour, we could not have gone on, you and me both. Sans that humour, minus the ability to laugh at these men and their quaint ways, we could not have managed.
But now, dear heart? There is nothing funny about this series of events anymore. The men you fall for, these men…

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Gay themed summer movies

I AM long overdue to reblog one of THE BosGuy’s posts, but I felt this would be a good one to reblog, so here you are.


Gay KissWith summer movie blockbuster commercials now in heavy rotation during every television ad break, I thought I’d give a shout out to some gay themed movies that you may want to check out this summer.  If any of these films catch your attention, contact your local indie theater to see if they plan on showing the film this summer.

Wild Horses opens June 5.  Written and directed by Robert Duvall the film also stars James Franco and Josh Hartnett, and is about a 15-year-old missing-persons case with clues that point to a powerful rancher (played by Robert Duvall), who is grappling with the sudden return of his estranged son (played by James Franco), whom he threw out 15 years ago because he was gay.

Do I Sound Gay? is a documentary David Thorpe created that opens July 10th, which addresses how many gay men grapple with how they sound. Commenters include David Sedaris…

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Who is afraid of Ricardo Fleitas Garcia?

We often hear about horror stories like these, and sometimes our greatest enemies are those that are like us.

And yes, consider me scared of what I read about this man.


The following story is about how older men who have some type of complexes or problems (disabled, overweight, low self-esteem, etc.) are looking for love, and falling into the hands of the so called playboys or fraudsters.

It is the story of a Spanish playboy and fraudster Ricardo Fleitas Garcia.

Ricardo Fleitas Garcia

Ricardo is a man in his forties; born in Bilbao, Basque country, but relocated in different parts of Spain. He looks attractive, and when you first meet him he is very charming, attentive, sweet and caring. But behind his beauty and sweetness is the story of lies, drugs, violence, fraud and deceit. When I first heard the stories about him I did pass the warning message about him on Facebook, and I got in touch with so many people who have been in contact with him and who told me their stories and experiences with Ricardo.

He is the typical…

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My personal reflections on ageism…

After having read and reread’s “Open Letter to Ageist Gay Men” (which you can read by visiting ), I felt it was time for me to share some of my own insights and reflections.

Personally, I AM at a point in my life, that I can honestly say (at least, ninety per cent of the time) that I AM at Peace with all of Life.

Yes, I do have my off days, my bad days, my days when I really wonder why I do not own a Glock 9 mil (oh, I remember: I love being a free man, as opposed to being Bubba’s prison bitch!), but all in all, I enjoy my life much more now than I have these last few years.

There are many reasons for that, professionally and personally, but ultimately, it has to do with my outlook on life, my Spirituality, and the fact that virtually everyone in my life right now is a Loving, Spiritual and Prosperous person.

Frankly, there are moments when I forget I AM forty-five years-of-age, but I love being 45.  I remember what my life was like when I was a teenager (HELL!), when I was in my early 20s (HELL!), when I was in my late 20s (HELL!), when I was in my early 30s (a little less HELL, but still HELL), and there are, indeed, benefits and Blessings to being my current chronological age.

And that bullshit about fifty is the new forty, and forty is the new thirty, oh, please!  That nonsense could not even garner a Clio Award Nomination!

Nonetheless, I love my age, have PRIDE regarding my age, and have neither the intention nor the desire to be younger.

Now, if you want to be younger, that is your business, but I love growing older, I love that there are men (including younger men) that find me either more interesting and/or more attractive because of my age, and love the fact that I have only one or two gray hairs (I honestly forget I have those, too!).

Now, if you are a Gay Man that is younger than, say, thirty and younger, I want to state, here and now, that I know all too well, that all of you are not the same.

Not all Gay Men are the same, everyone.  I think we forget that.  A LOT!

I think we are long overdue to move past the stereotypical in our own community and transcend those stereotypes.  Or, at the very least, consider looking at which “opinions” prevent us from being fully Self-Expressed Gay Men with other Gay Men.

Interestingly enough, I found out a few moments ago, that published a related post.  Feel free to check it out by visiting:

Please feel free to share your thoughts, regardless of your age.

Thank you, one and all, for honoring who you are and what you do.younger and older

When an Event is Canceled…

Since some of you avail yourselves of my Psychic Services, I wanted to reblog this blog post here.

Thank you for giving me the honor to make a difference in your lives.

This Is Who I AM

Last month, I canceled two Events because the number of pre-registered participants was below my minimum acceptable requirements regarding participants.  Incidentally, my minimum acceptable requirement for participants in any of my Events is five.

I have often said that I do not want bodies in my Metaphysical Classes, my Readings (private or at public venues), my Energy Healing Treatments, etc.

However, what I feel Divinely Guided to begin to state more frequently, is that I AM only interested in having clients, students, and friends who are Loving, Spiritual and Prosperous, and who are willing to go deep within themselves and see if there is anything they are radiating or emanating that is preventing them from having lives Divinely Abundant with Money, Gifts, Love, Honor, and Joy.

In addition, I AM crystal clear that there is a great deal of poverty consciousness in the mentality of “some money is better than…

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