I do not think I need to tell you of the importance of the Rainbow Book Fair for the greater LGBTQIA+ Community.
If you can attend and support this endeavor, then great! If not, then I invite you to become a Friend or Sponsor of the Rainbow Book Fair. When you visit their Website, click the tab that reads “Support Us” for more info.
Before I close, let me acknowledge my newest followers to “This Gay Man’s Life…” They are: “Chuck L,” “recipesbydaniel,” “warrenisaac,” and “amygrif.”
Also, I wish to acknowledge these other followers to “This Gay Man’s Life…” They are:”missymichaels452,” “DRCBCN08009,” “Jon,” “Man of many thoughts,” “AdultXXPO,” “uchechioma,” “scrappy1205,” “What’s your story?,” “donaldgeorgeherman,” “KRC62,” “reuserecyclerelove,” “Senna,” “Chuck,” and “lesouchef.”
To all of you whom I have acknowledged, thank you for your Love, your Light, and your PRIDE. May you always be beautiful, powerful, and sacred in all you do, and in all the ways you make a difference in the lives of those you serve.
And to all of you who already follow or read without following “This Gay Man’s Life…” may your Love and Light, bring you and all you serve, or shall begin serving, Empowerment, Freedom, Prosperity, and Peace.
I look forward to seeing you, in exactly three weeks, at the Rainbow Book Fair!!
And so, I was on my way to Manhattan, to go to Brooklyn. Specifically, the New York Marriott at The Brooklyn Bridge. In the meantime, in spite of being a fanatic for punctuality, I was late. Well, I did not need to be there at a certain time, per se, but the hours for the last day were from 11:30AM-4PM, so it was not like I was going to be there for several hours.
Last Saturday night, I began chatting with someone on the Growlr app, and he told me that THE Chris Claremont was going to be part of a panel discussion entitled “PRIDE and the X-Men,” and when I had learned that he wrote Uncanny X-Men for seventeen years, I knew that was a panel discussion to attend.
And I would have, except that I arrived after 2PM (did I mention the panel discussion was from 2-3PM?), and by the time I arrived, the room was closed.
Actually, I do not recall the exact phrasing the volunteer used, but she said that I would be unable to enter; I eventually learned that any additional people in Room B might be a safety hazard. Now, that I can certainly understand, especially as someone who used to work in supermarkets.
It certainly gave me the opportunity to catch my breath, wipe the sweat from my forehead, and have a light breakfast and certainly sitting down!
After catching my breath, eating, and relaxing, I looked at the Thomson Reuters Convene app, that FlameCon/GeeksOUT! recommended downloading on one’s smartphone (which was a very good recommendation, by the way), and saw a great panel discussion entitled “Agism in the Geekosphere & Fandoms That Span Generations.”
However, Nayland Blake announced early on that Mags Visaggio had an emergency and was unable to be a part of the panel discussion, as originally scheduled. I must confess, I have not followed up to see if she is OK, but I hope and pray that she is OK.
In the meantime, as much as I enjoyed all the panelists, it was listening to THE Laura Antoniou talk about her growing up, sharing her anecdotes, and her treasures of old ‘zines and scripts that touched my heart and moved me to tears. What she shared moved me to feeling nostalgic, in spite of the fact that the experiences she shared when she was younger were not experiences that I had experienced when I was younger, but they touched my heart, all the same.
Every panelist, from Nayland Blake, to Laura Antoniou, to Matthew Waterhouse, to THE Cecilia Tan, were a joy. Truly, I received more than double my money’s worth with that one panel discussion. I was also happy to discover that all the attendees of this panel discussion received a ten per cent discount on any purchase at the Circlet Press table. Circlet Press, “Erotica for Geeks” was founded by THE Cecilia Tan.
I must acknowledge that, although I took notes during this panel discussion, as well, I have not looked at them. Then again, my penmanship when I participate in panel discussions and workshops seems akin to Ancient Sumerian, these days!
I was truly very happy and floating on a cloud peace and light-heartedness after attending this particular panel discussion, and was looking forward to going to the Circlet Press table, and as I was about to leave said table, I had the opportunity to meet and speak personally with THE Laura Antoniou!
Once I finish up some of the books that I AM reading (as well as rereading), I shall begin reading her novel, The Killer Wore Leather. Yes, I AM very excited to read it. It has been a while since I have read some good LGBT books; of course, I only read good or very good LGBT books, but I digress!
In closing, here is a video that I made and uploaded a few moments ago, where I show off the programme for FlameCon2:
And I love how in the background you can see THE Terry Blas’s venerated vision of Buffy Summers, and yes, she DOES fight like a girl!
You can also view the Facebook Event page by visiting:
to read about my experience at the very first FlameCon.
This year’s FlameCon (or, FlameCon2, as the case may be) was not held at The Grand Prospect Hall in Brooklyn, but was held at the Brooklyn.
However, it was still held in the Beautiful Borough of Brooklyn, NYC. Specifically, the New York Marriott at The Brooklyn Bridge.
Once again, as I have been stating lately, especially online, Brooklyn is doing a very good job of taking very good care of me.
When I first became a professional Psychic, Manhattan and Queens were the NYC Boroughs treating me very well, but especially since last year, Brooklyn has been doing a better (and more frequently!) job of taking good care of “Robert Alvarez, the Psychic Witch” than Manhattan and Queens, COMBINED!
The first day of FlameCon2 was last Saturday, August 20, 2016, and was from 1-7PM. I must acknowledge that I was already looking forward to purchasing comic books, graphic novels, original art work, and some other fun stuff, so I went right into the Main Ballroom for a bit of a shopping trip.
In fact, it soon became apparent that I needed a big shopping bag. I was walking by one of the tables, specifically, the one for Prism Comics, and found a big, purple tote bag with the words “homo superior” written on it.
It also reads, “A nonprofit organization supporting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender comics, creators and readers.” That enormous tote bag helped me enormously.
For more info about Prism Comics, you can visit their Website:
Heather Hogan moderated the panel discussion, and she did a lovely job. I must confess, I knew very little about Ms. Hogan, but after spending some time devouring her Tumblr page, I feel like nominating her for President of the United States (can I do that? Please?!).
I enjoyed all the panelists, but shall not deny that I felt a greater affinity for two of them. First, Sophie Campbell, a comic writer and artist known for her indie comics Wet Moon and Shadoweyes, as well as the artist for a new Jem and the Holograms Series.
When Ms. Campbell said that she was in a grouchy mood, I could not help but feel this amazing affinity with her. Granted, I was in a great mood, and was so happy to attend that panel discussion (although I would have loved to have sat in a chair, as opposed to standing, but I digress), and I know what it is like to feel grouchy!
And then, Mr. Terry Blas. When he mentioned that he is half-Mexican, and was a Mormon from Boise, Idaho, I was like, “WHAT?!”
Of course, once he mentioned how much he enjoyed watching the complete series of Buffy the Vampire Slayer after he was no longer a Mormon, well, I felt as though I was looking at yet another brother from yet another mother.
It was a very informative and insightful panel discussion, and yes, I was able to have a seat, about a minute before the conclusion of this panel discussion.
After the panel discussion, I was certainly going to Mr. Blas’s table, and when I arrived (surprise, surprise!) there were several people there, and I must admit, I was truly digging watching the others talk to him, interact with him, ask him questions, buy his publications and art, etc.
Little did I know that I was experiencing a live, somewhat Psychic form of “foreshadowing.”
After about seven or eight people talked to Mr. Blas, made purchases and whatnot, he started greeting someone, and I had no idea that he was talking to ME! And yes, I realized this after I started looking around to see to whom he was speaking; when the people I saw around me looked at me, I quickly realized that Terry Blas was talking to ME!
Being Cuban, I was able to have a great conversation about being Latino, growing up Latino, and of course, I could get away with telling him to take another bite of his sandwich! People gotta eat, you know.
I enjoyed our Latino-themed bochinche and then purchased several items. And, of course, he autographed all of them. Thank you, again, Terry Blas!
There is more, but I shall leave the rest for tomorrow, Sunday, August 28, 2016, when I write and publish “FlameCon2, Part 2…”
But in the meantime,feel free to visit the following Websites:
In the meantime, here is my social media breakdown:
Facebook: Tomorrow, Friday, July 15, 2016, at 11:50PM, I shall deactivate my Facebook page; I shall reactivate it sometime between 1AM-12PM, Sunday, July 17, 2016;
Twitter, LinkedIn, SnapChat: if I can figure out how to temporarily deactivate those social media, I shall do so. If not, then I shall simply refrain from using them this Saturday;
Instagram, Swarm: Truth be told, I uninstalled those apps from my smartphone about two months ago. I have not missed them, and feel OK about it. I felt led to reclaim some mystery when out and about (no pun intended);
YouTube: I shall not use YouTube at all this Saturday, July 16, 2016, during #DeadSilentProtest
WordPress: I shall not use WordPress at all this Saturday, July 16, 2016, during #DeadSilentProtest
I shall spend the day engaging in some of my personal favorite Spiritual Practices: Prayer, Meditation, Visualization, Journal Writing. In addition, I shall catch up on some household tasks. And reading books, too.
It is ironic; so many of us in the LGBTQIA+ Community are encouraged to make our voices heard, and our presences felt. However, for #DeadSilentProtest, the opposite shall have the most impact.
We are strong. We are powerful. We are beautiful. And we are LOVED.
Perhaps not by everybody, but by more than enough.
You can also watch the YouTube video I created about #DeadSilentProtest by visiting:
Thank you for all you are, and all you do. And for honoring your Beauty, your Power, your Sacredness, your deserving of Love.
Let me know if you are doing this, too, or if you are not, and why.
Between the massacre at the Pulse Dance Club in Orlando, Florida, and the murders of both Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, it could certainly make one wonder if the world is truly changing for the better, especially for those of us who are members of the LGBTQIA+ Community.
However, in spite of recent events, I truly believe that the world, or, rather, the Planet Earth, is changing for the better.
For example, here is this post from the Daily Kos (PLEASE NOTE: I converted this to a Tiny URL, since the original Weblink consisted of 530 characters):
However, one organization that has been helping many of us in the LGBTQIA+ Community create and maintain change is “GLAAD,” the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. Here is a statement GLAAD issued last Friday, July 8, 2016:
And, I AM Re-Minded that sometimes, things need to get worse, before they can begin to get better.
In the meantime, I made a YouTube video that you can watch, to give you some additional insight into what has been happening and how I AM dealing with all of it, by visiting:
Do what you can do. Do everything you can to be safe and secure in your world. Do everything you can to be beautiful, powerful, and sacred. Do what you are going to do to help others and yourselves to be happy, empowered and whole.
I look forward to your comments, both on this WordPress Blog post, and this linked YouTube video, as well.
Shortly after 2 AM on Sunday, June 12, 2016, a man who was named Omar Mateen unleashed a tirade of bullets in the Pulse Dance Club in Orlando, Florida. As a result, at least according to various news reports, 49 people were killed, and 53 were injured.
Also, several news sources have been referred to this as the “worst mass shooting in American History.”
Since that time, I have felt a great deal of emotions: anger, sadness, despair, frustration, hope, disgust, and more. In fact, because of these conflicting emotions, and my professional schedule, it has taken me more than two weeks to write this particular blog post.
I felt sucked in to politics, and those that truly know me know that I AM very anti-politics.
However, I felt led to write something in a brand new notebook I purchased at the Rizzoli Bookstore in Manhattan, NYC.
This is what I wrote on Monday, June 13, 2016, 12:31AM:
“I have come to realize that the massacre/blood bath/tragedy at the Pulse Dance Club in Orlando, Florida is living proof that ‘marriage equality’ is not the cure-all that a lot of my fellow LGBTQIA+ Community members thought it would be.”
I was also led to make a YouTube video about my feelings about the attack, which you can watch by clicking on:
At this point, it has been more than three weeks since the attack, and in many States in the United States, and many countries around the world, June is the premier LGBTQIA+ Pride Month.
Nonetheless, I AM crystal clear that there is more to this story, more to this incident, and more going on, behind the scenes.
Ultimately, now more than ever, anyone who preaches hatred, racism, prejudice, racial profiling, misdirection, incitement, etc., is going to find that their support is being destroyed.
There is no shortage of additional information available regarding this incident. Which also makes me a bit sad, but I digress.
Now more than ever, ALL the world has seen the price ALL of us pay for bigotry, hatred, prejudice, racial profiling, ignorance, mindlessness, unkindness, insensitivity, indifference, absolutes, blame, “he said/she said/they are,” etc.
I also wish to acknowledge my newest blog follower, “Senna.” Thank you for who you are and for what you give the world.
Finally, let me also share the following posts from “BosGuy.” They are:
While the tide of public opinion has changed in recent years, there remains a strong and vocal group who see that acceptance as a direct and personal threat to their way of life. It is easy to disregard these groups but that would be a mistake. Rachel Lauren Clark, a member of the Pride Toronto […]